It doesn’t have to be a full blown love affair to teach you a lesson.  Sometimes even the briefest encounters can still teach us something that we need to know.  The following is an actual story that happened to one of my friends.  No names are being used to protect the innocent!

My friend, who was about 42 at the time, was out for some dinner and dancing with her girlfriends.  At about 9, the restraunt took on more of a club atmosphere.  As she made her way through the crowd, she felt someone tug on her arm.  It was a rather attractive man, a bit on the short side for her, but he was dressed well and had a killer smile.  He was dressed in a suit…..she was always a sucker for a man in a nice suit with a great Windsor knot.  (Her first husband was a killer dresser, other women thought so too)  When she asked him what he did for a living, he said, “I find homes for the homeless.”  He was a realtor.  (OK…he has a sense of humor)

After some playful banter they exchanged phone numbers and went their separate ways.  He called and they set a date to meet for drinks then go to the movies.  After drinks they were to head for the movies, but there was one hitch, he didn’t have a car.  Well, he had one, but because he had TWO DUI’s on his record, he never drove when he knew he would be drinking. 

Now there are two ways to look at that…..one may say that he was responsible.  Another may say he had a problem.  After the movie she had to drive him home.  Of course he invited her in and she went.  (OK ladies….let’s not be judgemental here…we have all done stupid things)  Although the house was sparcely furnished because his wife had gotten most of the furniture in the divorce (some would say this is another red flag) there was no lack of alcohol.  Out came the champagne and an invitation to join him in his hot tub.  Plus, he wanted to set another date to take her out on his boat!  Wow!  (He doesn’t drive a car, but drives a boat? Hmmmm)

She declined his offers of champagne and the hot tub, but she DID consider a day on his boat.  So….what did she do?  Common sense prevailed, something told her that it wasn’t a good idea.

LESSON(s) LEARNED:  Many

  • If something, better known as your inner voice, tells you not to do something, don’t do it! 
  • Two DUI’s and still drinking is not a good sign that the man has seen the error of his ways.
  • Don’t succumb to the same old attraction….in this case a nice suit and a great smile.  Be open to something different, it may just work for you.

So…..what is your short and sweet story?  Don’t forget to tell us the lesson you learned!

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